It's okay to be "that girl"
It is perfectly okay to be that girl.
(Sorry it took me so long to make another blog post, you guys. Midterms and college in general are kicking my butt.)
Today, this post will be about the girls who are "pushovers" or called "too nice".
It's okay to be the girl who forgives.
Forgiving isn't easy. Trust me, I know. Having to swallow your pride and push back everything that you've ever stood by... I know. But the reward you get from forgiving... It makes it all worth it. Growing better with a person is all worth it. Actually realizing that people make mistakes... It's perfectly okay to be this girl, to be the girl who only sees the good in people. We can't help it. We hate thinking that people would purposefully hurt us, or hurt anyone for that matter. People call us "pushovers" or call us stupid for forgiving whoever for whatever. Don't listen to them. You have a pure heart, keep it.
It's okay to be the girl who cares.
Whether it's being too attached to an animal or a human... when you care too much, you hurt too much. We want the best for everyone, especially the ones we care for. We'd rather see our animal/person thrive than see ourselves thrive. When we go out, we worry about if they're having fun rather than actually having fun ourselves. Again, we can't help it. When the person you care for slightly doesn't show the same affection, oh its the end of the world. Do they hate me? Do they even like my presence? Do they even appreciate the things that I do for them? All of this goes through our mind only because we don't understand how a person could possibly just not care. Even if someone did us wrong, we still can't help but care for them just like before. There isn't anything wrong with caring too much, loving too much, or forgiving too much. What is "too much" anyway? Who are people to tell you what's enough and what's not. Keep caring, girls. Keep loving, and keep forgiving. Not many in this world still do.
It's okay to be the girl who gives.
Whether it's with gifts or affection, we absolutely LOVE giving. It's our hobby. We don't care if it's our last penny, if it'll make SOMEONE happy, we will do it. Giving others great experiences, taking them out to eat, or simply surprising them with a home cooked meal, these are only a few things that we love doing for others. Best friends, boyfriends, moms, dads, it doesn't matter. They're in our lives for a reason, and loving them is what we shall do. It is perfectly okay to want this for others. Like said before, there aren't many like this. So humble, so giving, so loving. We're just happy to be in their presence and in their lives.
Embrace the way you are, Ladies.
It is perfectly okay to be the way you are. You are loved by so many, whether you think so or not. Be forgiving, be caring, be giving. Be the light in this world, because it sure can seem dark sometimes.
This is the end of my third blog post. Once again, I thank all of you for being so patient with me. I love each and every one of you, and may your day be filled with happiness and love.
XOXO,
-Hannah